DO YOU SEE WHAT I DID THERE WITH THAT TITLE, DOE?!
*calms down*
Ahem.
So, it’s been quite a while since I posted about my big “Cheekie” chop. Five months, specifically. I figured this was as good as time as any to stroll on by with an update. Either that or I randomly (and recently) took a bunch of pictures of myself and figured I’d share one of ‘em with you and use it as an update on my natural hair journey. It’s a toss-up.
Since that post, my hair has grown a lil’ bit. Hop into my DeLorean as we go 5 months into the future (from the last post):

This is a bit stretched out since I did a quick twist-out/bantu knot-out after washing the previous evening. And yes, Apple just gone sneak in the shot to "advertise" like this a reality show.
A few updates since that first foray into natural hair-dom:
– I have YET to kick this hands-in-hair habit. I guess I’m still in the “admit you have a problem” stage because I’m still doing it whilst admitting it. In fact, right after I typed that last sentence, I copped a quick feel of my hurr. *shakes in corner*
– I’ve noticed just how fast hair can grow. Meaning, I didn’t realize just how much growth I’ve had until I actually looked back at former pics from the beginning stages and compared the two. I didn’t think my hair had grown that much UNTIL I saw those older pics. *Looney Tunes wolf eye-pop*
– I’m still in love with Shea Moisture, but I’ve finally been able to dip into the loveliness that is Oyin Handmade. I’m actually planning a post JUST for them in the near future.
– I’ve noticed that along with my hair change, so has my sense of style. I find myself taking more fashion risks, especially since I’ve gotten the boost in confidence since the cut. And of course, I’m still on my accessory steez.
– Still loving the “I love yo hair, sista!” compliments from men. They still mostly come from panhandlers/homeless men, doe. My ego STILL does a cabbage patch afterward, regardless.
– My fingers are kinda oily now (yes, RAHT NAH) because I keep putting them in my hair and twirling my curls after I finish each update…
– I can’t stop looking at natural hair blogs/Tumblrs for information, new ideas, pictures, videos, kitchen sinks. Ok, that last one isn’t quite true, but kitchen sinks are ALWAYS included in long lists. It’s the law. Or something.
That’s about it so far. So, there ya have it, Pinchers. You likey me picture? Oh! And I do have one question for my natural hair self-named gurus and sista-pinchers:
I feel like I’m now in the “in-between” stage of a teeny-weeny-afro and a big ass afro. Though it’s not as nightmarish as folks have made it seem (via articles I’ve read so far), I am eager to find out if there are any tips on how to make it fresh. Since I’ve gotten some growth, a simple wash-n-go ain’t cuttin’ it for me anymore. At least not all the time. Any hair styling tips?
Thanks in advance! May the good Lawd bless you after you sneeze.
Love ya like Drake loves Cliff Huxtable-esque sweaters,
Cheekie

YAY!!!
When i find that 1 perfect coil/curl… it’s an effen wrap. All i need is to tilt my head to one side and chew some bubble hum obnoxiously.. LOL.
I too love Shea Moisture (esp the $10 @ Tarjay!!!!). I’m going to get a trim next week (im a little scared cuz we all know what happened the last time i asked for a trim… -_-).
I’m trying to keep myself in check with all the youtube/blogs because there can be differing opinions and it be overwhelming. but I do thank the sweet baby tebus for the videos!!
“When i find that 1 perfect coil/curl… it’s an effen wrap. All i need is to tilt my head to one side and chew some bubble hum obnoxiously.. LOL.”
Girl, yes! Don’t let me be chewing some gum, too. I’d be poppin’ it
on a headstand.Much luck on the trim. PRAYING you get the exact opposite result of that last nightmarish one. And yeah, the differeing opinions can be confusing. I think the bottom line is finding what works for you, which can be trial and error. I mostly use the blogs/videos for guidelines and hairstyle ideas. But nothing is really gospel across the board. There’s so many varieties of our hair!
Congrats!
Can’t really help you out on styles since I’m style challenged, but I have gotten a lot of ideas for simple styles from youtube. Keep at it grasshopper.
Thanks, t-lee! Yeah, I am glad that Youtube is out there for tutorials. It’s really helping the newbies like myself! NO idea how folks did it pre-innanet. lol
Your hair looks good!! You are so cute!
Girl, it’s been 10 years since I’ve gone natural and I STILL put my hands in my hair. I’ve never tried to not do it though. It’s habit & rather comforting for me at times.
I don’t really remember what I did to do something new (No Sanaa) when I was at your stage but if I think of fresh ideas, I’ll be sure to hit you up.
I thought I was going to switch up my products for winter but I’m feeling the SheaMoisture too much. I wanna try a new product though. I’m so absolutely bored with hair these days. I gotta figure out something…..
Thanks so much, Hawaii!! Yeah, I totally know I’ll never get over twirling my curls. You nailed it with the word “comforting.” It’s kinda like giving myself a form of massage. I also do it when I’m concentrating hard on something. Uncanny!
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